Here's the thing about pacing: nobody tells you what it actually *looks like* in real life. Every doctor says it, every pamphlet mentions it, and if you've been in any EDS community for more than five minutes, you've heard it a hundred times. *Pace yourself.* Great advice. Incredibly unhelpful if you have no idea how. My husband is not the kind of person who does things halfway. He's a get-it-done, push-through-it, sleep-when-you're-dead kind of guy. Which, honestly, is not a